I'm Neyda. I help people make decisions they've been sitting on for weeks.
I'm Neyda. I help people make decisions they've been sitting on for weeks.
THE BACKSTORY
I know what it costs to give advice you won't take for yourself.
- Six months researching business structures before filing a single LLC
- A coaching niche I changed four times in one year
- 47 half-written blog posts and zero published
- A conversation in a relationship I kept saying I'd have, and kept not having
I had all the information. Every single time. That was never the problem.
THE SHIFT
The same loop I ran on business decisions, I ran on personal ones. Different stakes. Same pattern.
I wasn’t missing data. I wasn’t missing time to think. I was deciding from feelings, and feelings kept shifting. Monday I wanted it. Wednesday I wanted out. Friday I was back. The option hadn’t changed. I had.
What I needed wasn’t more information. It wasn’t more time. It was a principle. Not naming what was already there: building the rule that would guide the new path. A rule that would hold on bad days, not just good ones.
Once I had it, the decision cleared and stayed clear.
I studied behavioral design to understand why that works. Then I started building it for other people.
WHAT WE DO IN A SESSION
- Find where you're stuck.
- Quantify what staying there is costing you.
- Build a principle that guides the new path.
- Identify the action that follows from it.
Most people see the path forward before the session ends. They just needed someone whose only job was to help them see it clearly.
I kept telling myself I needed more time before I could decide, and I believed that going in. By the end of the session I understood I had already decided and was mostly trying to prepare myself for what came after. That was not a comfortable thing to realize.
I had a list of reasons why I hadn't moved yet, and they were all legitimate. The session helped me see that the reasons were real but the timing was manufactured. I had been using the parts I couldn't argue with to avoid the one part that didn't have a clean answer.
I thought I was stuck because I couldn't figure out what I wanted. Neyda made it clear I already knew. I just hadn't found a reason to trust it when things felt uncertain, and it turned out that's a different problem with a different answer.
So I thought the problem was that I needed a better framework, more data, a cleaner way to compare options. The session made it pretty clear that I had been using all of that to delay, not to decide. That was uncomfortable to hear, and I think that was the point.
I came in with what I thought was a content question, and by the end Neyda had turned it into something about what I actually want to be known for. I didn't expect 45 minutes to go that deep, but it did.
DONE BEING STUCK?
One decision. 45 minutes. You leave with it made.
Full refund if you're not done with it. No questions asked.
